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You are here: Home / All Posts / It’s Cut the Crap Day — What are You Letting Go Of?

It’s Cut the Crap Day — What are You Letting Go Of?

September 12, 2013 by ReeseRyan

SERIES: To Be or Not To Be (and when to stop being) -- Guest Post by Jade Kerrion
Cover Reveal: Perfection Challenged by Jade Kerrion

I wouldn’t categorize myself as a hoarder. But, I do collect a few things.

A fraction of my CD collectionI have a crazy CD collection, including this small sampling on my desk, pictured here. Floetry. Joss Stone. Dru Hill. Kem. Maxwell. Jill Scott. Dixie Chicks Fly–one of my all time favorite albums. Stevie Wonder’s The Original Musicquarium–a classic that is pure magic, and yes, I know all of the words to every song on the album. Bobby Brown’s Don’t Be Cruel. Justin Timberlake’s Justified. Ryuichi Sakamoto’s BTTB. My Asian Lounge CD–love my World music–and more.

What? You don’t listen to CDs anymore? Well, neither do I. Not really. But there is something comforting about knowing I could listen to that Alicia Keys Songs in A Minor CD anytime I darn well please.

Then there is my book collection. My poor bookshelf is busting at the seams, praying for a reprieve, and thankful I finally jumped on the digital book bandwagon about a year ago. Not to mention the books I stash all over the house like a junkie worried someone is going to find her stash squirrel preparing for winter. Of course, I still hoard collect books. They’re just on my Kindle now.

My journal collectionI have an ever-growing collection of journals. Lovely, aren’t they? It’s too bad I rarely ever use them to, you know, journal. Usually they’re either sitting on my shelf–the pages as crisp as the day I bought them–or filled with scribbles, notes, and random ideas. But I keep hoping that next year month will be the time when I finally start journaling and stick with it.

We won’t even talk about the two-sizes-too-small clothes I’ve been holding onto since the turn of the century, hoping to get back into them. (What? Those Cybill Shepherd circa Moonlighting jacket dress combos will make a comeback. Mark my words.)

I’m getting some renovation done at my apartment. This requires that I empty counter tops and cabinets in several rooms. A task I’m not looking forward to, but that now feels like a gift. This is the perfect time to go through everything and purge. So I’m declaring today my personal Cut the Crap Day.

I’m going to take a long, hard look at my collection of crap with the goal of eliminating (tossing, donating, giving away) as much of it as I can possibly bear without tears, buttercream frosting, and copious amounts of adult beverages.

It’s time to let go of things I don’t need. Things that no longer serve my purpose. Most importantly, it’s time to let go of the emotional baggage that is intricately intertwined with clothing, books, and shoes I no longer need.

What’s in your closet, car, or home that you know you don’t need, but can’t bear to let go of? How relieved would you be if you could finally let go of it?

PS: Need some serious help clutter busting? My friend, Deb Smouse, has an awesome clutter busting class via email that will help you do just that.

 

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SERIES: To Be or Not To Be (and when to stop being) -- Guest Post by Jade Kerrion
Cover Reveal: Perfection Challenged by Jade Kerrion

Filed Under: All Posts, Share the Journey Tagged With: clutter, Cybill Shepherd, emotional baggage, letting go, Moonlighting, Reese Ryan

About ReeseRyan

Writes sexy, contemporary romance featuring a kaleidoscope of characters. Tortures unsuspecting heroines with family and career drama; reformed bad boys; revealed secrets; and the occasional identity crisis. Avid reader. Music junkie. NBA fan. Advocate of musicals. Pro-smile. Anti-BS. Deal with it.

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  1. Julie Luek says

    September 12, 2013 at 2:07 PM

    I don’t like clutter so periodically I go through things and just get into a mad tossing frenzy. Occasionally, though, I get rid of stuff, in my fit of cleansing, that I wish I’d kept. I too love books and journals and school supplies– a source of mocking for my family. I should go through my kitchen, but I can’t face it all. Good luck to you as you purge!

    • ReeseRyan says

      September 12, 2013 at 2:22 PM

      Thanks, Julie! That’s one of my biggest fears in throwing away my notebooks and journal. I worry that one day I’ll be in desperate need of a note or idea that was scribbled in a discarded notebook.

  2. Demetria says

    September 16, 2013 at 12:00 PM

    I’m so right there with you, Reese. I really need to “cut the crap” in a lot of areas of my life, not just object clutter. There’s emotional, financial, and physical clutter I need to streamline in order to live a healthier, free-from-unnecessary-baggage life. All this kind of crap cutting takes a lot of work and a lot of spiritual intervention.

    Wishing you all the best with your crap. 🙂

    • ReeseRyan says

      September 16, 2013 at 1:17 PM

      Demetria! You should see the big Kool-Aid grin that lit my face when I saw your name in my inbox. How are you? Hope you’re enjoying your well-deserved hiatus. Yep, there is soooo much baggage I need to let go of. The funny thing is, when we finally force ourselves to let go of all that stuff, it’s such a relief. I always think to myself, why didn’t I do this sooner?

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